I just want to let young men know that in the state of NORTH CAROLINA if you want to contest an adoption of a child you think you may be the father of, please take care of the mother during her pregnancy-provide her with money, food, clothing, a ride to the doctor-anything within reason-set up a bank account for your child even if YOU DO NOT KNOW FOR SURE IF IT IS YOUR CHILD-MAKE A DEPOSIT OFTEN AS POSSIBLE-FROM THE DAY YOU FIND OUT-THE COURT WILL USE THIS AGAINST YOU AND TERMINATE YOUR RIGHTS-PLEASE BE CAREFUL