Deedee, your story has truly inspiring to me. It really hurt my heart to hear of such inhuman things. I mean some people think, well, he didn't abuse you but his words were terrible. And the timing sucked. I'm really glad you did you. You are doing great and thanks for the info on the link. My cousin has been contemplating divorce and we always thought it would be extra difficult and expensive. Thanks again and GL. Sandy

My story is a little different. My spouse initially told me he wanted a divorce while I was laying in my hospital room after having our 3rd child. He of course was the cause of my post pardum depression. What woman wants the man shes married to, just give birth to his child, to tell her on her hospital bed, you no longer move me. He was so harsh it sung like a bee. I tried to keep myself together for the strength of my kids. Somehow it got swept under the rug after the baby came home. But it wasn't swept to the back of my mind. It was prominent, I knew I was just going through the motions. I then found the strength to file for my divorce. My sister sent me http://www.divorce4her.com/testimonies.html link because she had just finalized her divorce on her own. The rest is history. Believe me, you WILL get through this. I think I shocked him more when he didn't expect to receive the paperwork and did. He had nothing else to say. By that time he had decided to stick it through, but I wasn't sold. Be Strong!