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I'm new to this site and finding some great info and advice. Now, default divorce... My uncle went through his divorce maybe about 3 years ago. I do remember him mentioning he won his divorce by default. I was never really sure what it was and how it happened. So basically, if you spouse does not respond to the paperwork, you can go to your court after 30 days and let them know you would like a default divorce? See my uncle didn't have any trouble with his default divorce. It was granted and it stayed that way. He told me the best thing to do when serving your spouse divorce papers, is to do it certified mail. That way you KNOW they received it because it was signed for. So that would be proof for the judge to see that she/he did receive the paperwork and just plain out refuse to sign. Hmm, got me thinking, Thank you.