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Deciding on Divorce

When your relationship can't be helped, divorce may be your only choice. But tread carefully.
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Posted by Maddy08
November 16, 2008 5:08 PM
Re: Deciding on Divorce
Thank you all for this very important information! I am a stay at home mom and have been for the past 5 years. My husband decided he doesn't want to be with me anymore and that he wants to move on with his life. He said he doesn't care what I do with the kids. It's hurt me soo bad because I didn't think he thought of me this way. I have decided to do what he asked but on my terms. I called that link you guys provided for divorce4her.com. These people are wonderful. Thanks for all the help and keep forging forward no matter what. Maddy
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Posted by DeeDee13
November 10, 2008 11:44 AM
Thank You for your Validation
I recently decided to obtain a divorce from my abusive husband. After 10 years of mental, emotional and physical abuse, I have come to the realization that it's time. Or else its him or me. The truth does hurt. Reading these posts, amazing. My sister sent me http://www.divorce4her.com/testimonies.html link. She actually just finalized her divorce through this company. I was very skeptical at first but when she finished hers and now you guys talking about them calms my thoughts of scam, lol. You just never know anymore. Well thanks again for your info and validation that I'm going the right route.
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Posted by Spicymomma...
October 13, 2008 9:56 AM
I can say, I did it my way!
Hi, these posts truly hit close to home for me. I think I was asking myself the same exact questions about 4-5 months ago. My husband said to me, " I don't love you, come to think about it, I never did". It crushed my soul. I right then and there knew it was time to figure something out. We have 2 children and I'm a successful business owner. I can do this! I started doing research and then an employee of mine mentioned doing your divorce by yourself without all the hoopla of a lawyer etc.. I'm really proud to tell you all, I did it MY way! My husband didn't know what to think when he received divorce papers to sign. He didn't think I could do it, boy did I make a believer outta him, lol. I finalized my divorce about a month ago and it was the easiest thing ever. So for everyone thinking about going through a do it yourself service to obtain your divorce, open your mind, it is a new alternative to the ordinary. Move with the times or the times will move without you. Happy to be of help.
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Posted by Shellbelle...
October 13, 2008 9:23 AM
Re: Deciding on Divorce
Yes it is! Important is an understatement. See it's something, when the person you vowed to honor and obey, till death do you part is now your biggest enemy or very close to it. I love my husband, terribly. I don't want this divorce but he does. I sat back last night and thought about it. Why stay and give your all to someone that blatantly said "I want a divorce" Those are not words to think of lightly. I have promised myself to come online and get this procedure started. I found this post and printing, notarizing, signing and filing sounds like the way for me. I don't need all the lawyer stuff and dragging our names through court etc. I found a site (divorce4her) and I believe they are one of the do it yourself services. I'll be calling them today. Thanks again for your post Lesley. It's been eye opening.
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Posted by ariesprinc...
October 1, 2008 11:00 AM
I definitely agree, divorce is one of the MOST important decisio
I am going through my own divorce right now and I truly love reading these posts because it helps me to write and get my feelings out in front of me. Best of all, to people that have been through or going through the same thing. My husband of 5 years and I decided on divorce after we noticed we had none of the same interests. He had moved on emotionally and I was still a bit clingy. I woke up and realized, I deserve someone to love me as I love them. I decided to let our love fly free and part on good terms. 5 years of my life was wrapped up in this individual. Very Hard... but things are getting better. We are working together on doing our divorce by ourselves without a lawyer. A company prepares the paperwork and we print, notarize, sign and file. Beats a huge dip in our pockets! Lesley
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