I am also extremely disappointed in the reference to ignoring pornography found in a child's room. This causes me to think that the author does not know as much about raising a child as I would have hoped. For those who know pornography understand that it can easily become an addiction that is more difficult to kick than heroin. It is a precursor to many thoughts and behaviors that are destructive to themselves and often times others. It distorts the reality of a meaningful, loving, honorable sexual relationship. It degrades women and themselves. It can hurt them, their families, their future families and I would do everything I could to protect them from that kind of harm. The average age of exposure is 8 years old!!! Protect our future men.