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Punished by Rewards: A Talk with Alfie Kohn

Find out why rewarding your kids doesn't always work.
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From my point of view, everybody has left a simple question,that american culture has buried for too long and forgotten, and is the response that everybody should answer to--"this is something that you want to, or is something that yo have to".
I can see that everybody think that children need a constant stimulus or reward to do in what they HAVE TO do, to learn and become responsible and succesful persons. Parenting is a tough task and was for our parents a well, but we weakened. The new generations are buying their task but worst of all, we are leaving a weaker generation that unless they get what they WANT, they will be unable to confront life. Pain and suffer is part of life and you have to lern how to leave and confront it and get ahead with life. Happiness is the reward if you do things right. It is not a life and not a part pf your heart or brain. Is the consequence of balancing the MUST with the WANTS and that requires to look deep into the priorities and values we all need to have clear to face life.
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Punished by Rewards
I believe Kohn makes several interesting and unique points about punishment and rewards used in the classroom. The main point he makes is that rewards are just like punishments in that they control a child's behavior. He believes it is better to give children "an engaging curriculum and a caring atmosphere" (14). This way, children will find what is taught to them more interesting and will be more motivated to learn. While I do agree that punishment and rewards can be controlling, there are a few points Kohn makes which I disagree with. First, I believe rewards only control children when they are used too often. If this is the case, children will only do work knowing there is a reward to come. If rewards are used sporadically, children will never expect a reward and will complete work and become more engaged with what they learn. Furthermore, I do not believe younger children would want to go to school knowing that there is just "an engaging curriculum and caring environment" (14). Rewards add a fun element to school for younger children and motivate them to go to school. Secondly, Kohn suggests that there is no way teachers can motivate children. I believe that teachers can and do motivate children every day. In my opinion, teachers motivate children the best when they are enthusiastic. For example, I have always loved history classes of any kind. However, if the teacher is unenthusiastic about his or her teacher, I do not feel as motivated to go to class or do work for that class, despite it being a history class. Therefore, if a teacher can be enthusiastic and show his or her love for a subject, the student will be motivated to learn why the subject is so interesting. Lastly, Kohn states that praise is a verbal reward and therefore controls children (15). However, I feel that children, especially at the younger grade levels, need praise. This is because children often want to complete work because they want their teacher (or parents) to be proud of them. If they do not receive any praise, they might have a feeling of emptiness where they feel like they have nothing to work for. Even though I disagree with these three points, Kohn has made me think about how I will balance my use of rewards and punishments in the classroom as a future educator. I often find it helpful to find disagreement within articles such as this one in helping my knowledge within education grow.
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Re: Punished by Rewards: A Talk with Alfie Kohn
After reading this article, it got me really thinking about my own life. I recall times when I would not do my work for there was no reward for doing. Other times I would just fly thru my work just to get the reward at the end. I do agree with this article and its view on rewards. Rewards do only get a child to do what you want at that point in time. This can make life easier. It is hurting them in the end. People have to learn do things without getting a reward for doing it.
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Re: Punished by Rewards: A Talk with Alfie Kohn
Reading Kohn’s article made me think back on my own experiences with rewards when I was growing up. Personally, I was never given tangible rewards by my parents for doing something well or something I was expected to do but I did receive them from my teachers at school. At home, my parents taught my brother and I to simply do what we were told. However they would always explain why what we were asked to do was important so we were not “treated like pets”. I believe that this method was effective but I can also understand why educators uses rewards so frequently in the classroom. Many parents do use a reward system to shape the behavior of their children so students come into the classroom with the mentality that if they complete a task then a reward is expected. I believe that a balance between the two methods would be effective for teachers in the classroom. By using a mixture of verbal and tangible rewards and interesting lesson plans that keep students engaged and are clearly relevant the course material, the teacher can help to develop the “capacity to make responsible decisions” in students.
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Punished by Rewards
Reading Kohn’s article made me think back on my own experiences with rewards when I was growing up. Personally, I was never given tangible rewards by my parents for doing something well or something I was expected to do but I did receive them from my teachers at school. At home, my parents taught my brother and I to simply do what we were told. However they would always explain why what we were asked to do was important so we were not “treated like pets”. I believe that this method was effective but I can also understand why educators uses rewards so frequently in the classroom. Many parents do use a reward system to shape the behavior of their children so students come into the classroom with the mentality that if they complete a task then a reward is expected. I believe that a balance between the two methods would be effective for teachers in the classroom. By using a mixture of verbal and tangible rewards and interesting lesson plans that keep students engaged and are clearly relevant the course material, the teacher can help to develop the “capacity to make responsible decisions” in students.
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Punished By Rewards
I think that even though Kohn makes some legitimate arguments against the use of rewards. However, I do think there is a way to use rewards with children without "controlling them, acting in a way that is manipulative and disrespectful" I think rewards are sometimes necessary for positive reinforcement and they do work, as long as the teacher works with the student along the way. I do agree with Kohn when he says that rewards work in a way that they are a temporary compliance. I feel if you explain to children the reasons why they should continue with their positive behavior (besides getting a reward for it), they will want to continue that behavior in the future. I think rewards act as a guiding step in changing children's behavior. I don't think teachers should strictly rely on rewards, but they are a good starting point to get children to see that wehat they are doing is good.
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Punished by Rewards
Reading this interview made me think about the way that I was encouraged to learn or to behave at home and at school. There are some good points about rewards working only as “temporary compliance”, but I am not sure that this is always the case, depending on how and when a reward is given. I also do not believe that rewards always send the message that children should only be nice in order to receive something in return. The right encouragement and moderation of rewards can instead be a way to lead children to learn responsibility and develop an understanding for right and wrong behavior. However, I do really like the idea of trying to work with children and helping them in decision making and problem solving. I have some difficulty though grasping how to go about doing this without any type of reward or punishment.
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Rewards
As I continue to study to become a teacher, there are many controversial topics that I should be aware of. The topic that Kohn introduces is about rewards/punishments. I believe that rewards should be required within your classroom. It is a form of positive reinforcement, which children need to help them succeed. It gives them the confidence to strive to do more. As a future teacher, I believe it is important that you always reward students for good behavior. This encourages them to do the same in the future. I understand where Kohn is coming from when he says this might lead them to be less generous or responsible. But, I believe he is making a hasty judgment. All students are different but most of them thrive on positive feedback. In addition, I believe teachers have to stay consistent with rewards and not overuse or misuse them. They should be careful of how and when they are using it. There are many forms of rewards that children need to grow. Not only does it bring a smile to their face but it shows them if they make the right decision, good will come. Overall, I believe rewards are another sign of care and love from teachers to their students and teachers should incorporate rewards in their classroom.
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Sometimes the smallest gestures, are the best rewards...
As a future educator of Elementary Education and Special Education, I personally feel that rewards are vitally important to any classroom environment. As a teacher enters into a classroom they are capable of giving each child the hope they need to grow in and outside of the classroom. These children are a group of student’s who can and will achieve success with the proper tools, resources, and intellectual knowledge from their parents, teachers, and peers. As a child continues to grow, a teacher uses rewards as way of setting a positive representation and appreciation for an act, or response given from their student(s). As a teacher, giving some sort of praise in the form of a reward is where I feel every teacher needs to make an important choice. Once a teacher gives a reward for a particular behavior, the behavior that was demonstrated needs to me consistently praised for students, at all times. As educators, we need to become consistent in the ways that we choose to reward our students; however, we need to reward our student’s for specific deeds, at random times, and under certain circumstances. A reward is what makes some of our student’s reach higher, try harder, and participate in their education. Using rewards can become abused when teachers “bribe” their students like Kohn states; however, it is more important that we support our student’s with rewards then to confiscate them because we may suppose they are “temporary compliances” (Kohn 2009). We need to acknowledge the hard work of these students; a gold star, a sticker, or a piece of candy may just make all the difference in one child’s education career that you may not ever realize: it did for me.
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Re: Punished by Rewards: A Talk with Alfie Kohn
I am currently studying to become a teacher and I think and believe that rewards are definitely needed. I agree that sometimes rewards are used incorrectly but I do not see them as being equal to punishment. I thought that you had a great point when you said that "the real choice is between doing to and working with." I believe people do things to children and not working with children. I think that rewards are not "temporary compliances" but rather children will do things because they know that they will receive something for doing the correct thing. I think that this is okay and not something that is for a temporary use. I thought you had several strong points but I disagreed on some things.
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