Comments on:Punished by Rewards: A Talk with Alfie KohnFind out why rewarding your kids doesn't always work.
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Comments on:Punished by Rewards: A Talk with Alfie KohnFind out why rewarding your kids doesn't always work.
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I can see that everybody think that children need a constant stimulus or reward to do in what they HAVE TO do, to learn and become responsible and succesful persons. Parenting is a tough task and was for our parents a well, but we weakened. The new generations are buying their task but worst of all, we are leaving a weaker generation that unless they get what they WANT, they will be unable to confront life. Pain and suffer is part of life and you have to lern how to leave and confront it and get ahead with life. Happiness is the reward if you do things right. It is not a life and not a part pf your heart or brain. Is the consequence of balancing the MUST with the WANTS and that requires to look deep into the priorities and values we all need to have clear to face life.