i have a stepson of the same age (11)dressing up in my clothes and then he is mastuerbating, what should i do, i'm lost, he's already undergone some counselling, but what now

Dear Mother or relative to the Cross Dressing Victim
This is a kind of fetish developed with luck of un-supervision from parents. when someone in this society is taken this case to be serious matter of curing that symptom , for example a psychologist researcher he will finally come up with a finale cause or a source that cause a child into that wrong sexual orientation or a wrong gender behaviour .I should believe that the main reason as to why this child has come to that final decision which i think is caused by his parents not fighting enough to push him towards defending against his vulnerability because at some point the child is brought up in a certain level of a tough behaviour type of environment, which I think sometimes If someone has to move out from the area hi lives for the sake of his child sexual safety, it must be done. the second cause would be a sexual abuse without the parents knowing, caused, and a third is when a child is only surrounded by only his sisters and was not chased out at a right moment now there are a lot of factors and all someone need to do is a questionnaire with all possibility and details and information’s by the web resources about a gender disorder behaviour. the solution is possible , for future .But as to this where the child is already trapped in this type of sexual fetish. it s like a situation where this person is completely wrapped in a spider web where he cannot climb up and rip the web because the more he want to enjoy the situation the more the spider cords have more strength and the more he struggle to think that he can rip the web latterly his negative .but you should know that this person (the Victim) has a certain orgasm where it’s not fulfilling the heterosexuality behaviour , even his body language is perceived in a weaker image by his environment where he is underestimated or if he is respected it means he should have been harsh towards his working environment nothing is right and he is hated at some point by his collegues or class mates .so this orgasm and sexual behaviour can at some point re-accurse in its normal status , sometimes with therapist , and rarely people can cure them self , unless they are clever enough , a bitter fight , and what I mean a long fight a 6 moths fight , if that person start to fight and rip the web sharply , it’s going to hurt , and what I mean is , the more you injure the web the more the sharp pleasure and the greater anticipating to cross dress , the will race for it , i will come back to this expression the heart racing for the phantasm . it works just like when you have had a serious injury your physique can fight it to cure, but you sometimes are going to scream until its settle down and most of the time if you are patient its curing rapidly , but do not forget this is a type of spiritual fighting , just stand still and feel how hard it feels when we do not want such behaviour to our self and basically at that right moment the victim is feeling the delight to go in the Chester draw and take those panties to ware , this things are a gals and woman sexual wears its permissible for them it normal we ( men ) love them to feel that way because that how they want to feel to sexually please a men and vice versa ,that how men want to see those girls in that sweet sexual look . So the child ( Victim ) should be is doing a bitter fight in a self sexual discipline , and try to rip one of the layers of the spider web so from that time there is a recorded fighting rate that can be used for the next layer . So if at that particular moment of heart racing to go and fulfil his pleasure let him stand still and do a bit of analytic , and you will find all his memory channels are locked from doing other activities or even going at some appointments the more that victims fight , the more that victim want to exhibitsTo you the parents or sister or father or the brother, it’s a drug , or nicotine simple , but what if that victim at that particular moment has manage to unlock the memory Chanel that sharpen the understanding where it must be executed to stop and do not think sex and don’t ejaculate to release your sexual pain , this will make him feel bitter and a lot of contradictive emotion and that is actually Ripping the web layers feeling bitter and ripping more until the last is reached , never reverse back . in this heart racing situation .And when this is repeatedly prevented in such way , the person should rediscover the sunlight of desiring a girl with all the sexual power and respect.If you want to bring your child to anticipating, ask him and tell him it’s nothing wrong at the moment Tell me the truth and tell what do you want if you are wearing this thinks is it a men or a boy or a girl He will tremble by saying all the truth and will definitely tell you who he want , then ask him what make him feel good to wear and let him go to wear , follow him and before he put his hands on the drawer hold his hands you will find his heart racing let him open a little bit and see the silk material And ask him if he is sure that he want to wear that but do not let him yet wear it and say to him i know its nothing wrong my sweet baby son stay a little while like 1 minute , and that is the time where you have to explain to him the fight that he must never give up until he rip all the spider web layers . And is down to him if he want to come back to heterosexually, but if not it means that the cords are so strong .