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Divorce: The Most Difficult Decision You Will Ever Make

Before you and your spouse decide to get a divorce, consider all of your options.
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Posted by Dad4boys
November 3, 2008 12:45 PM
why get married?
If over 50% of marriages end in divorce why are people getting married? What is the advantage to marriage? Marriage makes everything neat. Assuming we have two people who contribute to society getting married and they in turn produce off spring who in turn contribute to society then the idlyic picture develops well, but that doesn't happen. Instead of staying in a relationship that doesn't work, we get to dissolve that agreement. I prefer and I am thankful that I can now example to my children a loving relationship, rather than, osmotically teaching them how to sustain a bad relationship. The root cause of our failing matrimonial bonds may be linked to our failed state of self knowledge, but that's another topic.
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Posted by Suebean55
October 30, 2008 10:42 AM
It is hard But not the end of the world
You have a second chance at life. My spouse and I have been separated for 14 years now. I have no idea where he is, but we both know by now a divorce is in order. He has moved on with his life and so have I. We basically need closure. Prior to separation, we didn't get along, we have different interests, different views on just about everything. Not even sure how we agreed to get married and have children. Go figure! lol. Don't look at divorce as the end of the world. It might seem that way for the first good year, but believe me it gets a lot easier. I've decided to go through a company that will handle the divorce for me without a lawyer. Basically they do the paperwork and I'll print, file and sign. http://www.divorce4her.com/testimonies.html. Good luck to anyone that going through the beginning stages, the pain will soon subside. Sue
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